In a recent article by friend of the Downtown Women's Club, Michelle Goodman, entitled Learn from the Opposite Sex at Work, there is a fabulous quote by Jan Combopiano, vice president and chief knowledge officer of Catalyst.
“Women have to prove they're ready for leadership, whereas men just have to have potential for leadership."
Click here to read the whole article.
Yes, once again, it’s the “women have to work twice as hard” speech. I think my Dad first gave me that talk back in 1985 (and anyone watching poor Peggy Olson in Mad Men is reliving it on a weekly basis). Yet, in most cases, i.e. traditionally male-dominated industries, it’s still true today. However, here at the Downtown Women’s Club, we don’t waste any time complaining that we have to work twice as hard; instead, we focus our energy into doing it.
Not sure how to get started? Here are five tips to help flex your leadership muscles.
- Take on leadership roles no matter how small. This can be in your office, in a volunteer role at an industry organization, at your kid’s school (Madeleine Albright parlayed that into some higher level appointments), in your church, or your kid’s local sports leagues. Even if it’s not a high-profile role, it is all about getting comfortable delegating, communicating and decision making.
- Don’t wait to be asked. True leaders don’t sit back and wait for someone to nominate them to be a leader. Speak up at the next meeting and volunteer to take charge.
- Find a leadership role model. Not everyone has the same leadership style. Find someone whose style reflects your own. This can be someone you know, or even a public figure whom you may never get to meet.
- Make changes. “Leaders” create change; “managers” maintain the status quo. This is why many managers fail when placed in a leadership role – they don’t have enough leadership training or practice.
- Don’t be confined by the past. Many of us grew up with a certain idea of who a leader is. The vision that comes to mind is a Caucasian, gray-haired male politician or ceo. Doesn’t sound like a very attractive position these days, does it? However, our last election proved that our country was ready to include women and minorities in the role of leaders.
In Seth Godin’s Tribes: we need you to lead us, he states that almost everyone can be a leader if they find the right tribe and get over their fear of being criticized or failing. This is why practice is important. So, now that I’ve given you some tips, the onus is on you to go on out and become the Queen of your own tribe.
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Bonus Tip: Want a great way to flex your leadership muscles? Get involved with the Downtown Women's Club. We're looking for new and future leaders to head up chapters (DWC-San Diego and DWC-Detroit need directors), or even to start your own. Click here to download our free DWC New Club Guide* and find out how you can start practicing your leadership today.
*Includes information on how you can leverage your leadership role into affiliate revenue opportunities with our new affiliate program.








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